Dear Amazon and Facebook, Showing me ads of things that I have already ordered OR things that have not yet arrived, is rattling me.  The way when we were kids and you would shoot a paper football across the room to get my attention… …but this behavior has me up all hours of the night.  I thought we had a mature relationship. If you are going to target me with ads; You should be helpful and suggest things that I forgot to put in my cart or things in my wishlist that are on sale now. Show me what else I could purchase. (I mean if Target can use a scarily…